First of all, thank God for human beings. I love us, I really do. We teach one another so much that even if a situation was bad, there was still a lesson to be learned. You know, when someone new is introduced to my life. I’m more fixated on what is the purpose of this connection. What is my role here, how can I help? I do not believe in coincidences, I believe everything occurs purposefully and it is up to us to pay attention to the signs. I look for signs of alignment or misalignment to help me discover my purpose or the lessons, in a particular situation.
A question I’ve most recently asked myself is, have I fulfilled my purpose in this situation, am I done here? Although I have not received an answer for certain, I heard the word, “unconditional love“. It aligns perfectly with the experience, and I believe that is the lesson God wants, or wanted to teach me. To demonstrate unconditional love to myself, in the situation, but also to be able to have unconditional love for others.
Something I also recently grasped from the experience, is that we can love others deeply unconditionally, but sometimes, there comes a point where we will need to walk away. Walking away doesn’t mean you don’t love someone. I think it means the opposite. You love them so much that you care enough to let them go because they need to be who they are and fulfill their purpose in this world. You give them the room to do so. Without any type of worrying, if it is meant to be in the future, then it will be. I also do not believe you and I can miss something or someone that is destined to be for us.
People need room to grow and space to develop. As I’ve mentioned before, everyone is not meant to stay in our lives for the rest of our lives, and that includes the people who we consider as significant.
If you know what you want, you can have it.
You can develop a liking for someone or something yet realize it’s not in alignment and it’s not what you want. (I’m not saying to act in a way to hurt others, just know when to let go, and do not be fearful). Knowing who you are and what you want is important. Why settle when you can have what you desire? Many people, including my family members, I’ve seen settle for situations they’re not happy with. And to myself I’m thinking, do you not know who God is? Do you not know who you are in this world?
Listen, if I do not want it, then it’s not mine. If I want it, it’s mine, like truly. There’s no, “No you can’t have that” or, “You can’t do that”, because now I’m really motivated to be your inspiration. When you want something or someone, you do what it takes. There are no excuses. You get to co-create your reality.
I’ve had someone close to me say to me, “Well you should make things work with your baby daddy because y’all have 2 kids”. I don’t deal with those limited thinkers. Shut the… limit yourself, honey, not Danicker. I will have the life I desire; there’s no part of me that believes I won’t because I’m not asking God for much, I’m asking for what is possible. What makes you think God can’t use a situation that looks messy to some, and turn it into something glorious? Stop settling for what you don’t want. Have faith and allow God to use your situation. You limit yourself and God, when you settle for less than.
Don’t be the one to sit and think, oh well, it’s because of XYZ, why they’re this way, or it’s because of THAT, why they’re this way. Do you know what all that is? Its assumptions. Which to me looks like finding an excuse to settle for trash, and not work on yourself. You know darn well, if you wait, and appreciate how genuine of a person you are, you will get what you truly desire. Believe you’ll get what you desire. Stop being lazy and align your WHOLE BEING with what you want, work on your spiritual self, align your thoughts and actions… Create the outcome you want, you have that power. If you’re a passionate person, why are you settling for someone who isn’t just as passionate as you are? Makes no sense to me.
