I don’t apologize for being my own muse. But while this is true, I also thoroughly enjoy taking pictures of myself without displaying my face, and well unexpected shots of myself I like them too. Do I also downplay myself? I DO. I don’t give myself enough credit, and so I act that way. That
I refuse to not speak about rejection as if I wasn’t rejected. Although I have been processing it for months on months in my mind, it took me some time to write about it. Rejection is one part, but then there’s the time spent accepting the truth. I think the most painful part is realizing
This topic is close to my heart because, while I’ve never felt like I’ve struggled with self-worth, it has always been something that I’m pretty much aware of. There have been occasions in my life that could have resulted in me struggling with self-worth, but instead, I saw it for what it was, and I
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I’ve most recently begun another year, all praise to God. And, just like the start of my previous years, it’s not new that I’m filled with optimism and eagerly looking forward to what’s to come. I don’t have a dream life. I don’t have a dream man, I just like him, apart from, what’s usual.
The peace, the joy, the love. The unity. It’s within thyself. Nothing you search for can be found externally. Who you are internally is a reflection of the world you see and experience externally. Peace is a state of mind; it’s an inner state. You don’t search for what you already are. And if you’re
It is sacred. It’s not appreciated for what it is, but it’s also not innerstand, so it gets abused. She felt inspired to write this. It is what she considers to be personal. But, upon feeling inspired, she thought of it as allowing herself to be led and going with the flow because she trusts
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I will continue to be me. As someone who thinks deeply, I often have to shut my thoughts down to silence my mind, or else it’ll go on and on. When I communicate with others I find myself replaying conversations in my mind. Something that caught my attention and has been on my mind for
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Listen. I once thought being older meant being more serious about commitment. I assumed that meant maturity. But here’s what I noticed; Some men say they want a committed relationship, yet contradicts themself by behaving as if they were single. I cannot speak about all men. It wouldn’t make sense. I’m not that experienced. And
Some Men Really Don’t Want to be In Love, They Just Want Sex. Read More »
I’ve been here before. The difference is that as a child, I wasn’t aware until after the fact. Now I’m more aware while navigating. This post has been pending for like two years and a little over. I kept holding back because I was skeptical and had many thoughts around my finance. Danicker what the
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See, something I like to sit and do is analyze humans… And some are just too fucking weird… and operate entitled. (I truly enjoy my own company, I WILL tell you I’m busy, just to be left alone so that I can think). I recently came to the conclusion that I am indeed allergic to
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God. I’ve been contemplating my relationship with God, and what me being submitted to God looks like for God, and I. I rather be alone while I study the Bible. I don’t prefer “groups”. That’s not my slice of bread. I enjoy listening to teachings from Dr Myles Munroe, that’s it. I say all this
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I like that you’re the reason I’m in thoughts every time. You make my body excited, I can tell that she likes you. You’re so special, even you have no idea. What’s even better, is that I like that about you. I’m a good girl, I thought I loved bad boys. But nah, you show
Based on a conversation I had most recently, I was irritated a bit, and preferably, I would usually write my thoughts out about such conversations in my journal, then rip the page and burn it. As I was showering myself on the night of the same day, I voluntarily began reflecting on my response to
BE PRESENT. Stop allowing your mind to control you. Read More »
I had this fun idea to recap my forex trading, thus far. I instantly thought to myself, how cool is this, of course I should. I hardly ever mention it on here although it’s a part of my everyday lifestyle. I started trading forex back in June, or July 2020, my mom introduced me. I
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A world where people settle for shallow relationships. Not caring for a deep and passionate connection with someone. The relationship with our materials just so happens to be better than our relationship with humans. But when all those materials are stripped away, who are we? A world where people are chasing temporary highs, with no
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The saying to whom much is given, much is expected, isn’t just some fancy saying. I am not very mature in age, in my opinion, (at the time of writing this post.) However, I do have some teachable experiences, where I learned the importance of detachment. I am eternally grateful for my experiences, because with
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First of all, thank God for human beings. I love us, I really do. We teach one another so much that even if a situation was bad, there was still a lesson to be learned. You know, when someone new is introduced to my life. I’m more fixated on what is the purpose of this
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But Darnicker what are you talking about, what is a waiting season? I’ll tell you this. Ever since I’ve accepted what my purpose is, and I’ve committed myself to it, I’ve been in the waiting season. Waiting is not, easy. It’s hard. It’s very hard. And it makes you question your decisions, and it makes
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At 6 years old, you cannot fathom what life is. There is a lot I remember, but I’m sure, there’s also a lot I forgot. The most important people to you at that age are your parents or those you find comfort in. The year 1999 was a life-changing year for my sibling and I.
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*** a script.*** It’s 7:00 am. I’ve been up since about 6:00 am. I’ve got a flight to board later on today. I’m going on my first solo trip out of the country. I’m excited. I’ve managed to wake up early despite going to bed late. Since my mom will be holding the kids while
I was excited to write this. I’m looking forward to reading this at a later date, whenever there’s a moment where I need to hold myself accountable. Had an entire script in my head while making lime juice, and dancing with my toddler in my arms, trying to keep her awake. It reminded me how
It’s time to hold yourself accountable. Read More »
Every human has an opinion, including myself, I’m no exception. And the thing that makes it prominent is social media. Everyone has got something to say and there are people who care to listen, watch, or read. The world is just so loud, and all I see are people who – sound the same, look
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“But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things will be given to you as well.” Matthew 6:33. I quote this scripture from the bible because this is the scripture that made me draw closer to God because of how low I was feeling in the past. I believe this
God will. Not mine. Read More »
I was in the shower, as usual. Maybe some of us do have a child-like love where we experience hurt and we scream, shout, curse, and all the added extra stuff. And within no time we’re back to normal ready to love and receive love as if we’ve never been disappointed before. Something about childlike
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“What is something you’ve been holding back?’ And if all it took was 11 days. It feels like a decade. Since YOU asked, “The connection was priceless. That’s all I could say.” They spoke for 2 hours on the phone on their first conversation back in August twenty twenty third. All about one topic. 11
When you’re someone who prefers to put in the work to have your desired reward. Having that reward just handed to you will never compare. And that’s the thing. Some people think you want handouts, and they strive to do just that. They will never understand your drive to make things happen for yourself and
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I hear the saying, “You take life way too seriously.” And you know what, I’ve realized that statement confuses me. Like I need more explanation, what do you mean? Why the heck would you not want to take life seriously? I’m spooked by people who make this statement because now my mind is thinking you
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Your goals are worth achieving. Tell me there’s one way to achieve a goal and I’ll tell you there are many other ways. If this post brings you to this website, allow me to re-introduce myself. My name is Danicker, and I gave birth to two girls within five years. Both pregnancies were planned. I
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Allow me to give you a scenario. In this scenario, we are going to call our character, “Sally”. Sally being in a relationship, strongly thought her partner was the one. But as time passed, she realized he was not, and knew she had to get out of that relationship. What Sally realized was that she
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Today is an amazing day. I’m actually chilling with the kids on this gloomy day. What’s new? your question makes me smile because you know, I’m always chilling with my kids. What’s new is this topic that popped into my mind. Why on earth would I even think the man is not yours. There must
The man is not yours. Read More »
Reality. Change your perspective and you’ll change the way you make decisions moving forward. Everyone you come into contact with in your life will not align with your beliefs and values. Every individual journey throughout life is more than likely to be different in some way or the other because our purposes are different. You
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When I think of Lifestyle, I’m thinking of fashion, home organization, health, family life, and all the things that contribute to an individual Lifestyle. On this blog, the main topics are; Motherhood and Lifestyle. However, Motherhood can come under Lifestyle, and maybe you will agree. Now you’re probably wondering why not just create a Lifestyle
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Can we all take a moment to realize those instances where we craved growth within ourselves? Feeling bored and tired of the same old you. If you’re someone who does not fancy change and you’re cool with staying the same for the rest of your life, then this post might not be relevant for you.
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Before you ask yourself “Why my life is full of struggles?” I want you to answer these questions, when you’re faced with a difficult situation in your life how do you deal with it? Do you; (a) Believe that you will never come back from this. (b) Believe it would not last forever. ( c
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Such a cold heart. With the amount of specimen on your clothing, I worried about what animal you harmed. All along, the specimen was of my own kind. Heard the news on television a couple of days after, but I paid it no mind. How naïve of me to think it was an animal when
Living below your means is something I’ve heard a few successful entrepreneurs did, before becoming successful. But what is it, is it worth it to live below your means? Or would you just prefer to live life like it could be your last as each day comes by? How do you feel about living below
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It is 10:41 PM July 11th, 2023 and I’ve prayed with the kids and finally got them in bed. Rewind: while I was doing the laundry earlier today, I kept saying to myself I need to upload today, I need to upload today. In the midst of saying that mantra, my train of thoughts kept
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“So, what is solitude anyway? and what does it look like to embrace solitude Danicker?” From my perspective, solitude simply means intentionally spending time with oneself, alone. It’s the time you dedicate to being alone with limited distractions. I feel like being in a state of solitude, can also happen in the company of others,
I do not know how this random realization came to my mind on this day, but it did, and I thank God it did. As I’m sitting here on my charts waiting for G U to hit my tp while listening to Freddie Scott’s, and eating a few dates. It came to my mind how
The importance of community. Read More »
I have to confess. Putting together this list of 28 lessons I’ve learned from life thus far was not one of the easiest posts. It obviously required me to think and do some reflecting, but without any delays, let’s get into it, because I am super excited to share these 28 lessons I’ve learned from
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You know, as I was reflecting and observing. It came to me how much confusion stirs up when someone openly starts developing their relationship with God. But I have a few questions. why would you not want to develop your relationship with God? We all take chances on other things not knowing the outcomes, but
May 12th, 2023. 7:20 pm. I am going to leave this here while I am currently in a state of vulnerability, and learning to surrender and trust the process. The direction of this post is GRATITUDE and still wanting more, while I am genuinely grateful to God for all I have. I hear others preach
Ok, so this is getting personal. But these are the conversations that are needed. The fact that I’ve just finished reading The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck. There is no better time to write this post than now. I’ve been slowly finding my voice, and it feels great because these are the conversations I
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She may never see this post; however, it was inspired by the Immigration Tech Founder of the UpRow app. Having heard her speak on this topic recently, the season of dysfunction. I was compelled to write a post on this topic myself from my point of view. It is always interesting for me when I
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So, in case you’re new here, My name is Danicker. I am a stay-at-home mother. God gifted me with, not one, but two beautiful daughters. We decided to name our gifts Destiney and Lunar. I started this personal blog because 1. I love documenting. And 2. I wanted to document the most important parts of
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This space has not been getting the attention it “deserves”. Let me just start by saying, being a stay-at-home mother is no joke, and if you thought that was cool, wait till your child reaches toddler age. The big question is what have I been dealing with lately? To be quite honest, lately, I’ve been
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Growing up I never knew there was a term for my need for personal space and my desperate urge to be in solitude. I’ve always considered myself strange to my peers, but I wasn’t sure in what way. Back in my high school days, I was never a girl to have many friends, and the
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Navigating through life can be overwhelming at times, especially when there are certain areas of our life that need decluttering. We don’t necessarily realize this, but the daunting effect it has on our daily life is enough for us to take action. In this post, I have given you some things to organize in your
ORGANIZE THESE FOR MORE CLARITY IN YOUR LIFE. Read More »
I challenge you to answer these questions in your personal journal. These are 30 questions to answer to know yourself better. There is no need to rush, you can take your time, as these questions can be answered over a period of 30 days. When you are through, share these questions with family and
30 QUESTIONS TO ANSWER TO KNOW YOURSELF BETTER. Read More »
You may be asking yourself what are some tips to help you stop comparing yourself to others. At times we compare ourselves to others, I do too, I’m human. This is triggered by a lot of things. I have this trait about myself where I try my very best to perfect whatever I do. Once
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So, I get it, you have finally decided you need to set boundaries for yourself, but your question Is, “How to set healthy boundaries for myself?” I totally understand you, because I was once there. In this post, I have listed 3 ways to set healthy boundaries. Ever since realizing the importance of healthy boundaries,
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