A world where people settle for shallow relationships. Not caring for a deep and passionate connection with someone. The relationship with our materials just so happens to be better than our relationship with humans. But when all those materials are stripped away, who are we? A world where people are chasing temporary highs, with no […]
The world I live in. Read More »
The saying to whom much is given, much is expected, isn’t just some fancy saying. I am not very mature in age, in my opinion, (at the time of writing this post.) However, I do have some teachable experiences, where I learned the importance of detachment. I am eternally grateful for my experiences, because with
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First of all, thank God for human beings. I love us, I really do. We teach one another so much that even if a situation was bad, there was still a lesson to be learned. You know, when someone new is introduced to my life. I’m more fixated on what is the purpose of this
Why settle when you can have what you desire. Read More »
But Darnicker what are you talking about, what is a waiting season? I’ll tell you this. Ever since I’ve accepted what my purpose is, and I’ve committed myself to it, I’ve been in the waiting season. Waiting is not, easy. It’s hard. It’s very hard. And it makes you question your decisions, and it makes
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At 6 years old, you cannot fathom what life is. There is a lot I remember, but I’m sure, there’s also a lot I forgot. The most important people to you at that age are your parents or those you find comfort in. The year 1999 was a life-changing year for my sibling and I.
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My name is Danicker. I am the main writer on this website. I created and designed this website myself. This online space is where I come to share my thoughts that can positively impact another human being. I am a mother. I gave birth to 2 girls. The father of my kids, him and I
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*** a script.*** It’s 7:00 am. I’ve been up since about 6:00 am. I’ve got a flight to board later on today. I’m going on my first solo trip out of the country. I’m excited. I’ve managed to wake up early despite going to bed late. Since my mom will be holding the kids while
I was excited to write this. I’m looking forward to reading this at a later date, whenever there’s a moment where I need to hold myself accountable. Had an entire script in my head while making lime juice, and dancing with my toddler in my arms, trying to keep her awake. It reminded me how
It’s time to hold yourself accountable. Read More »
Every human has an opinion, including myself, I’m no exception. And the thing that makes it prominent is social media. Everyone has got something to say and there are people who care to listen, watch, or read. The world is just so loud, and all I see are people who – sound the same, look
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“But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things will be given to you as well.” Matthew 6:33. I quote this scripture from the bible because this is the scripture that made me draw closer to God because of how low I was feeling in the past. I believe this
God will. Not mine. Read More »
I was in the shower, as usual. Maybe some of us do have a child-like love where we experience hurt and we scream, shout, curse, and all the added extra stuff. And within no time we’re back to normal ready to love and receive love as if we’ve never been disappointed before. Something about childlike
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“What is something you’ve been holding back?’ And if all it took was 11 days. It feels like a decade. Since YOU asked, “The connection was priceless. That’s all I could say.” They spoke for 2 hours on the phone on their first conversation back in August twenty twenty third. All about one topic. 11
When you’re someone who prefers to put in the work to have your desired reward. Having that reward just handed to you will never compare. And that’s the thing. Some people think you want handouts, and they strive to do just that. They will never understand your drive to make things happen for yourself and
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I hear the saying, “You take life way too seriously.” And you know what, I’ve realized that statement confuses me. Like I need more explanation, what do you mean? Why the heck would you not want to take life seriously? I’m spooked by people who make this statement because now my mind is thinking you
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Your goals are worth achieving. Tell me there’s one way to achieve a goal and I’ll tell you there are many other ways. If this post brings you to this website, allow me to re-introduce myself. My name is Danicker, and I gave birth to two girls within five years. Both pregnancies were planned. I
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Yep, at the age of 18 months, my toddler is potty trained. Having a diaper-wearing baby, nothing is more rewarding than this. My confidence as a mother has just spiked by 2%. Let’s be honest, no one wants to work for free. It’s rewarding when you work hard and you finally get paid. To put
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Lately, my mind has been preoccupied with the topic of living in purpose. When the mind ponders, there are questions involved. “How do we know for a fact we’re living in purpose? If this is what God wants me to do in this season, why does the journey feel questionable?” I’ve rested on the belief
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Allow me to give you a scenario. In this scenario, we are going to call our character, “Sally”. Sally being in a relationship, strongly thought her partner was the one. But as time passed, she realized he was not, and knew she had to get out of that relationship. What Sally realized was that she
Some of us are submitted to the wrong man. Read More »
Today is an amazing day. I’m actually chilling with the kids on this gloomy day. What’s new? your question makes me smile because you know, I’m always chilling with my kids. What’s new is this topic that popped into my mind. Why on earth would I even think the man is not yours. There must
The man is not yours. Read More »
Reality. Change your perspective and you’ll change the way you make decisions moving forward. Everyone you come into contact with in your life will not align with your beliefs and values. Every individual journey throughout life is more than likely to be different in some way or the other because our purposes are different. You
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When I think of Lifestyle, I’m thinking of fashion, home organization, health, family life, and all the things that contribute to an individual Lifestyle. On this blog, the main topics are; Motherhood and Lifestyle. However, Motherhood can come under Lifestyle, and maybe you will agree. Now you’re probably wondering why not just create a Lifestyle
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Can we all take a moment to realize those instances where we craved growth within ourselves? Feeling bored and tired of the same old you. If you’re someone who does not fancy change and you’re cool with staying the same for the rest of your life, then this post might not be relevant for you.
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Motherhood is a fragile journey that a female will embark on during her lifetime. Every female experience during motherhood is different; how I experience motherhood is completely different when compared to my sisters’ experience, my mom, my high school friend, and even you. However, we all share the same journey, which is motherhood. Upon becoming
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Before you ask yourself “Why my life is full of struggles?” I want you to answer these questions, when you’re faced with a difficult situation in your life how do you deal with it? Do you; (a) Believe that you will never come back from this. (b) Believe it would not last forever. ( c
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Read this before becoming a stay-at-home mother. July 21st, 2023, 6:35 A.M., I turned to the sight of my kids’ resting faces. Then an inner voice said, “This is really your daily life on repeat”, I instantly became inspired, and the question, Would you recommend becoming a stay-at-home mother, came to mind. Here am I
Would I recommend becoming a stay-at-home mother. Read More »
Living below your means is something I’ve heard a few successful entrepreneurs did, before becoming successful. But what is it, is it worth it to live below your means? Or would you just prefer to live life like it could be your last as each day comes by? How do you feel about living below
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It is 10:41 PM July 11th, 2023 and I’ve prayed with the kids and finally got them in bed. Rewind: while I was doing the laundry earlier today, I kept saying to myself I need to upload today, I need to upload today. In the midst of saying that mantra, my train of thoughts kept
The Waiting Season. Read More »
“So, what is solitude anyway? and what does it look like to embrace solitude Danicker?” From my perspective, solitude simply means intentionally spending time with oneself, alone. It’s the time you dedicate to being alone with limited distractions. I feel like being in a state of solitude, can also happen in the company of others,
I do not know how this random realization came to my mind on this day, but it did, and I thank God it did. As I’m sitting here on my charts waiting for G U to hit my tp while listening to Freddie Scott’s, and eating a few dates. It came to my mind how
The importance of community. Read More »
June 7th, 2023, I browsed my posted content earlier and realized I have not since written a life update on being a mother to 2, and my experience thus far. I’m somewhat “surprised”, motherhood is supposed to be the highlight of my life, at least so I imagined. I imagined it to be what I
Life update being a mother to 2. Read More »
I have to confess. Putting together this list of 28 lessons I’ve learned from life thus far was not one of the easiest posts. It obviously required me to think and do some reflecting, but without any delays, let’s get into it, because I am super excited to share these 28 lessons I’ve learned from
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You know, as I was reflecting and observing. It came to me how much confusion stirs up when someone openly starts developing their relationship with God. But I have a few questions. why would you not want to develop your relationship with God? We all take chances on other things not knowing the outcomes, but
May 12th, 2023. 7:20 pm. I am going to leave this here while I am currently in a state of vulnerability, and learning to surrender and trust the process. The direction of this post is GRATITUDE and still wanting more, while I am genuinely grateful to God for all I have. I hear others preach
Ok, so this Is getting personal. But these are the conversations that are needed. The fact that I’ve just finished reading The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A F*ck. There is no better time to write this post than now. I’ve been slowly finding my voice and it feels great because these are the conversations
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She may never see this post; however, it was inspired by the Immigration Tech Founder of the UpRow app. Having heard her speak on this topic recently, the season of dysfunction. I was compelled to write a post on this topic myself from my point of view. It is always interesting for me when I
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So, in case you’re new here, My name is Danicker. I am a stay-at-home mother. God gifted me with, not one, but two beautiful daughters. We decided to name our gifts Destiney and Lunar. I started this personal blog because 1. I love documenting. And 2. I wanted to document the most important parts of
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Moving on from a relationship that involves kids, is not a decision one can make easily because there are so many things to consider. When you’re in what is considered to be the honeymoon stages of a relationship, you’re highly convinced you’re in love. It’s new, it’s fresh, and it’s what you think is right,
My experience. When I left my job In 2021, I was immediately trying to figure out my next move, how to work from home as a stay-at-home mother. To my surprise after doing some research, there were plenty of ways to earn an income while home, especially for stay-at-home mothers. There still is. From my
How to work from home as a stay-at-home mother? Read More »
Stay at home mother to entrepreneurship
stay-at-home mother to entrepreneurship. Read More »
This space has not been getting the attention it “deserves”. Let me just start by saying, being a stay-at-home mother is no joke, and if you thought that was cool, wait till your child reaches toddler age. The big question is what have I been dealing with lately? To be quite honest, lately, I’ve been
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Motherhood for me started from the moment I realized there was a human growing in my womb. Or let’s just say from the moment I decided I wanted to become a mother. I mean, no one could not tell me shit. In my mind, I was already pregnant and full of joy. Carrying you felt
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My feisty Destiney, you are one of the main reasons I am the woman and mother I am today. Dreams really do come true; you may hear that statement a lot throughout your lifetime but even if you have no belief in it, I want you to know you were once a dream until you
How I dreamed my daughter into reality. Read More »
As I sit beside the both of you while you sleep so peacefully on this full moon night, this moment brings me a feeling of intense emotions. If anyone is to ever ask what is my reason it will undoubtedly be my kids. It is an honor to mother you both and I am eternally
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Growing up I never knew there was a term for my need for personal space and my desperate urge to be in solitude. I’ve always considered myself strange to my peers, but I wasn’t sure in what way. Back in my high school days, I was never a girl to have many friends, and the
BEING AN INTROVERT. Read More »
Navigating through life can be overwhelming at times, especially when there are certain areas of our life that need decluttering. We don’t necessarily realize this, but the daunting effect it has on our daily life is enough for us to take action. In this post, I have given you some things to organize in your
ORGANIZE THESE FOR MORE CLARITY IN YOUR LIFE. Read More »
“Boi am I lucky! I cannot believe I do not have to worry about waking up to make bottles. I’ve heard how difficult breastfeeding can be but I’m sure I can manage, besides, if my body is producing milk tailored to her needs, what is the point of me purchasing milk.” February 2019. “My infant
MANAGING A TODDLER WHILE PREGNANT. Read More »
I challenge you to answer these questions in your personal journal. These are 30 questions to answer to know yourself better. There is no need to rush, you can take your time, as these questions can be answered over a period of 30 days. When you are through, share these questions with family and
30 QUESTIONS TO ANSWER TO KNOW YOURSELF BETTER. Read More »
You may be asking yourself what are some tips to help you stop comparing yourself to others. At times we compare ourselves to others, I do too, I’m human. This is triggered by a lot of things. I have this trait about myself where I try my very best to perfect whatever I do. Once
TIPS TO HELP YOU STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS. Read More »
Strange enough I managed to ask the people who are in my close circle what they do for self-care. To my surprise, they either did not know what self-care was or they do not practice self-care. If you also fall in this category, please do not feel bad as it is quite understandable how individuals
SELF-CARE ROUTINE AS A STAY-AT-HOME MOTHER. Read More »
So, I get it, you have finally decided you need to set boundaries for yourself, but your question Is, “How to set healthy boundaries for myself?” I totally understand you, because I was once there. In this post, I have listed 3 ways to set healthy boundaries. Ever since realizing the importance of healthy boundaries,
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